Confidence is definitely something I didn’t have much of before. In my past 6 months of being single I learned a lot about myself. About what I can and can’t do. About how I can see myself from a more distant, different perspective in riskey/dodgey situations. I feel confident in myself in a way that I know exactly where I stand and what my part is in particular scenarios…
I was recently in a very uncomfortable situation where I really felt like I’m losing my
shit patience. To have an argument is the most normal thing in the world and definitely part of LIFE itself. That’s something I always knew. To be able to have said argument in a controlled and normal manner is something that is not all that easy sometimes.
Im very aware of myself lately which means I know exactly what I’m doing and I can easily admit when I did something wrong. This is something that is very new to me because this was Issue #2 that I really wanted to work on after my past relationship ended. Being able to admit I’m in the wrong and apologising for it. Unfortunately for everyone else this also means I realise when someone is trying to force me to believe I did something to them that I myself know for a fact is not true. This is where I draw the line.
I’ve grown a lot over the past months and I’m definitely still willing to change and grow but I’m not willing to take any steps backwards. That’s what I realised during this argument. Yes to adjusting, yes to change, yes to working on it but a big big NO to emotional manipulation. When you do something wrong the only thing you need to do is realise it and apologise for it. The one thing you are NOT to do is try to make the other person believe it’s on them. That’s what manipulation is. I’m defintiely ready to grow up. I’m ready to leave the bullshit behind. I feel confident in my emotional maturity.
This is where I’m at currently.
Until next time,
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